Want vs Need

Sometimes I just pause in my daily life and wonder ‘what comes next’? Even at work I sometimes ponder. Should I do this or should I do that. I know what needs to be done. I even know how to prioritize tasks and chores. But, in pops the question ‘what do I want to do next’?. There’s the rub. It is the age old question want vs need. So many decisions in life are broken down into that very question.

I believe in my life the choice has shifted as I have gotten older.  I suppose that is to be expected.  Early on it was need, now it seems to be want.

want-need

Or is this more appropriate.

want-need2

-thotlady

Fashion Run Amok

There are so many things wrong with this photo, where do I begin.

The price is ridiculous.  Really ridiculous.

This girl is so thin, this is what is wrong with the fashion industry standards.  Young girls will try to emulate her physique.  It is so sad, on so many levels.

jean shorts

-thotlady

Cody Bear

He is the sweetest dog.  We have had him for 3-1/2 years.  He makes me smile so many times every day.  Here he is this morning, taking my place in bed soon after I left.  Warm and cozy in my spot.

Cody

Cody Bear

Killing Me Softly

I recently re-discovered this song.  I love it.  The melody and lyrics speak to me.   I plugged it into Pandora as a station and a whole host of songs from that era started playing on my computer at work.  Every song makes me take a stroll back in time.

Strumming my pain with his fingers, singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song, killing me softly with his song
Telling my whole life with his words, killing me softly with his song

I heard he sang a good song, I heard he had a style
And so I came to see him and listen for a while
And there he was this young boy, a stranger to my eyes

Strumming my pain with his fingers, singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song, killing me softly with his song
Telling my whole life with his words, killing me softly with his song

I felt all flushed with fever, embarrassed by the crowd
I felt he found my letters and read each one out loud
I prayed that he would finish but he just kept right on

Strumming my pain with his fingers, singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song, killing me softly with his song
Telling my whole life with his words, killing me softly with his song

He sang as if he knew me in all my dark despair
And then he looked right through me as if I wasn’t there
And he just kept on singing, singing clear and strong

Strumming my pain with his fingers, singing my life with his words
Killing me softly with his song, killing me softly with his song
Telling my whole life with his words, killing me softly with his song

-thotlady

Nail Art

This girl’s nail art is amazing.  So pretty and innovative.  Give her a look.

Love this!

Love this!